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    When a little white lie is "okay"

    I have a yummy recipie for Pumpkin bars, which I decided to make for Thanksgiving in lieu of Pumpkin pie. DH is antisugar (for himself, goes back to the low carb thing) and wants Splenda. So, I told him (thinking it was true) that I could make the bars with Splenda. I realized it wouldn't work so I added the two cups of powdered sugar. So, do I tell him or let him enjoy the bars and just keep my trap closed?? A little white lie won't hurt him so is it harmful?


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    Well, I'm ok with the usual little white lie, but I have to admit I'd be mad if I was following a diet.


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    Lie, lie, lie LOL I do this to Dh all the time who is certain he hates veggie burgers. He sure scargs them down when he has no clue. ROTFL


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    I wouldn't tell him!!! Let him enjoy the bars!
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    I'm the odd one out, huh? I guess if the lie was to sneak in something healthy, ok, but how serious is he about sugar?


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    I'm thinking how many bars will he actually eat... not too many that it will ruin his diet, right? If he was diabetic and the sugar could really harm him then I would be honest, however, this doesn't seem to be the case.
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    well since my hubby is diabetic I would have to tell him. Just tell him the truth, that splenda wouldn't work and you had to use a "little" sugar.
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    hmmm, i guess i'm the weirdo. i would tell him and i would also tell him to get over it. he can have a small one.
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    HAHA No, he is not diabetic and while he would insist on me using Splenda, he certainly had no problems polishing off candy from Gs party bag this week

    I simply told him that I had to add "some" powdered sugar in it. He still managed to down three or four. So did I am man they were delic!!!

    Melin, you are so honest I would be angry if I were following a diet and got lied to, also. The problem is, he really isn't following any diet, just tries to act like he is on occasion...

    They are actually for Thanksgiving so I thought by telling him that it had sugar, they may stand a chance at making it until dinner. The bars are techinically to make something that he likes (Pumpkin) which is why I was feeling guilty over the sugar and not using the Splenda that he likes. Splenda doesn't always taste great in baking, though...
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    Nope....I wouldn't have told him at all!
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