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Adoption After IF Adoption is a road to parenthood and a wonderful road to take, but it is not a cure for infertility and those feelings can still run deep. This is a safe haven to openly discuss our feelings about infertility which remain as we move onto adoption.

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Old 02-12-2006, 06:29 PM   #1 (permalink)
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i have a question

i have endo and was put on lupron for 3mos. for the first time in my life i have had some pain relief and no af. it also feels good each mos not to have to wonder if i might just a little get pg on my own. i go in for my consult and will have to decide what to do next. do you think i will miss out if i go on bcp. i dont really have a desire to have a pg. but if it came along i would be happy. i would only be terrified on m/c. my question is i would be on bcp for endo but would miss out on the chance of a suprize pg. what do you think.

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Old 02-12-2006, 06:37 PM   #2 (permalink)
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This is one I am looking at now myself. We have never tried to prevent PG, but right now it is not something I would really want. The actual act of preventing pg is hard to think about. I have been thinking seriously about going on Yasmin to help control my PCOS, I also think at this time in our lives avoiding a surprise as much as I would love one it isn't best for our family. I also after suffering a M/C am afraid of getting pg, so for me I am going to take the Yasmin, if it would help with your endo and pain, I would do it. No since on missing out on your life due to pain, for the "what if" enjoy the here and now.
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thanks for your input. i heard of the bcp seasonal where you can have af only 3 or 4 times per yr. i will ask for that. one thing i forgot is i will always be afraid that china wont give me another baby until i hold them in my arms. that is another delima.
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i will always be afraid that china wont give me another baby until i hold them in my arms. that is another delima.
I will never know why people have called adoption the easy way. I hope you are holding her soon.
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The seasonal pill sounds like a good compromise to try. I hope it works well for you.

where are you in the process for baby #2?
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we were starting to sign a contract and collect paper work for homestudy but we found a house at such a great deal so we are waiting to move before doing home study. i cant send dtc until may 2006.
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Good Luck with your new house and your upcoming move. What an exciting time for all of you. Keep us posted on how everything is going. You are one Busy Mommy right now.
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thanks for all your support irishcreme. you are one true cyber friend. alex.
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