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    kizzyhill
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    Lightbulb Stop!PLease respond! I need help!

    [SIZE="1"]PLease comment, dont just scroll.. I really need to here ladies that have been thru what I have or similar stories. I know I cant be alone.
    Heres my story, me and my hd have been trying for 2 yrs.. no luck.AF comes every month when expected too. Sometimes irregular when I have Sex alot-sorry tmi..but for the most part it right on time. I remember getting the ovulation pain..so I knew I was ovulating. Everything seem normal. But one thing, the main thing, actually getting pregnant.The doctor told me my tubes were blocked and the ony way to conceive was to to get surgery.I schedule surgery for 2month later. The following month after the HSG test I fell pregnant. Sadly I miscarried baby at 3 weeks.I named Jace My heart is broken I cant sleep..this is all I think about night and day. I cant function. Please share any input you have. God Bless 2 all baby dust! duct2:



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    BC-G36
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    @Kizzy - very sorry for your loss. what you need is a plan. Make a appt to talk to your Dr about next steps. It will help get your mind off the past and get you excited about what's to come. The good new is that you DID get pregnant on your own. That's what you need to focus on.
    TTC since 2001
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    IVF / ICSI #2- Ectopic
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    IVF / ICSI #4 - BFN.
    FET #1 - BFN
    IVF #5 - feb 2013 (Donor sperm) - BFN
    FET #2 - May 2013 - BFN .....and that's a wrap.

    We did our best but it just wasn't meant to be.


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    Beagle Momma
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    I am so sorry for you loss....it is never easy. I am sending lots of hugs to you. I agree with G36...having a plan to move forward helps to get me out of the funk and I have heard you are more fertile after a loss.

    Keep us posted!


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    Kizzy, hon, you know I've been following your blog and my heart just breaks for you. It isn't fair! I just want you to know I'm here for you. I'm going to send a PM.

    Kim


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    tarala
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    I've had three early losses, and it doesn't matter that it's early, it still can be devastating. Give yourself some time to feel the pain. It's okay that you don't feel better right away. With each of my three, it was different. Then after you're feeling a little better, remind yourself that you conceived easily after your surgery. And the chances of a miscarriage after having one are no more than anyone else.
    Take care!


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